Walesi Dragakoa

What was i doing before i overcame the thing i help people with...

I was working as a laborer doing all kinds of work that i probably wasn't qualified for but was decently good at from gas wielding, rigging, sweeping floors and emptying bins, grinding (literally) while struggling to provide for my daughter who was born with multiple disabilities on my own. I went from being athletically built as a teenager hoping to make a career in martial arts to smoking and drinking whatever spare time i had away. A young father from the rough country Struggling with his identity on who he was, what hes here for and who to be, wondering is this it... as i started at every other man around me in the shittiest health in all aspects of life, broke, in a miserable loveless relationship, surrounded by negative and life draining weak men settling for this bare minimum slave orientated system, destined to carry on my parents domestic violent alcoholic ways that i grew up with for my children... 20 years old gulping and fiending for a much more powerful above average existence every day for 2 many plus years.

What was the challenge that was uncomfortable and kept you stuck before:

Truth is i was stuck in this cycle i saw many before me in because i just simply didnt know how to be or do any better... All my life i wanted to do and be different, unique but everytime i tried too i felt i was alone and that being like everyone else is the only way to go.

What was the number one thing that i learned or overcame from that situation:

It wasnt until i hit a pivotal moment one day

4th week straight from being unemployed, living with my parents, mother still yelling at me to just get a job while holding my 1 year old daughter. I realised i didnt know what i wanted in life but i damn sure knew what i didnt want and it was this! This constantly trying to please everyone and be like everyone else crap despite how often i would day dream about being fifferent and decided to take action when i saw this personal training ad come across the tv and thought THATS IT! Sparks flew in my head, something i can do that involves developing my mind and body as i have always felt confident doing and love doing along side others. I had no idea what it would expect of me, i was never confident at learning in school and spent most of my life pretending to be in every interaction, every situation, hell all of the time i avoided confrontation as much as possible from all the years of being yelled at and beaten... so the idea of studying again seemed hard - what if i fail, what will people think of me, all that insecured attachment style shit...but! I thought what if i went in there with a mindset of " i can learn and master this course easily and act like it every second i am in there... what if i pretended to be another version of myself that does love learning and act as if noone is actually in my life to judge me anyway" no one in there would know me anyways. so i borrowed $500 (hesitantly as i hated asking for help as i was taught that you are usless if you do) for the deposit for the course, got my aunty and dad to watch my daughter during the day while i studied and paid the rest of the course off using the bare minimum amount i was getting as a single parent for 2 months straight. By the end of it i had realized that for the first time in my life i actually challenged myself at something that seemed to hard one time and conquered it! This is when i realized that i am different and fucking loved it! I realised that i can do the exact same thing over and over again with anything in my life no matter how hard something is or gets. I realised that i was not only different and unique but didnt care about others thought anymore because i was actually happy for once and that happiness led me to better people and opportunities.

Now that i have overcome my challenge, what is it that your passionate about and want to help others with, and why is it important:

15 years later i have helped hundreds if not thousands of people from all walks of life repair, evolve and ascend their mind, body and spirit while building a business that generates thousands of dollars a week which has allowed me to continue upgrading myself to higher levels as a man, father, husband, warrior and all round human being. And this is why i do it, i love showing others how they too can repair from their past, evolve into their desired form and ascend further than what they could ever imagine. This is my passion and my higher purpose, to see all men rise - not alone - but together. To see all those that love their families, want to be different and harness the power of their uniqueness. To create a new breed of human beings where we change the way we love as a whole collectively for the better forever.